Sunday, March 31, 2019

Guilt

Yo guys! I'm back with something to talk about with all of you!
Guilt! yes its the topic of this post. So i'm sure every one of us have faced this feeling more than once. Because obviously all of us haven't gone across life for so long without doing mistakes right? While some people try to hide them, some of them and that is very few of them admit their mistakes.
Guilt is what you feel when you are hiding a mistake you've done, but...it might not always be because of a mistake you've done, it might be one which you blame yourself for whatever happened. That happens, I've been there, you've been there and we've all been there.
The problem is that sometimes...or maybe always...this guilt we have leads to bad consequences.

You know... have you heard that line?... "Every bully has a story"...In fact everyone has a story!
As I've told you in previous posts, People change..and one reason for a good student to turn into a bully is the guilt feeling, trapped in him or her, which is caused by their past and their experiences in different situations, for which they blame themselves.
Similarly even a loner in a class or an introvert has a story behind them.
The best way to change a bully or a bad guy or a loner is to to talk with them. Let them express themselves and free their guilt...because this guilt is a huge burden which makes us do more mistakes...
So hiding away is never a way...you have to face it. Hiding from a problem or hiding the problem or blaming yourself creates the guilt. acing it no matter how hard it is, lets you let out your guilt and free your mind, and lets you be yourself.
People should know that its OK to make mistakes, you just have to realize your mistake and try not to repeat  it next time, and try to improve yourself, but that doesn't mean you have to blame yourself all the time and put yourself down, because that just doesn't let you do anything.
The help we can do for our ones carrying guilt is a little motivation, that even though they have been on the wrong path till now, its never too late to turn to the right path.
In our world, people who point out mistakes and put us down are way more than the ones who can try  to motivate and encourage others to do the right thing, that is the reason more and more of us are turning bad and against us, that's one of the main reason terrorists, villains in our world and bullies in our schools and colleges are rising...
Now do you realize that this small thing called guilt can lead to such a huge impact in the world?
Well I hope all of you can face your guilt and try to correct your mistakes, and make a better life ahead...and that those who can shall motivate our loved ones and actually help whoever possible.
We can bring change in world in this way too...

Friday, March 29, 2019

Ego vs Self Respect

People say we shouldn't lose our self-respect, but we should never keep ego...Have you guys ever mistaken ego for self-respect? Well, my dear friends you know it. They are not the same!  Ego and Self-respect play similar roles but of two different worlds, or let's simply say different views. 
 Love yourself...you must've heard this many times I assume? That's self-respect. You have to respect yourself, but you can't expect everyone to put you first. Everything has a limit. The main point is, how you treat others shows them your level of ego, and how you treat yourself shows your level of self-respect!  I always believe that just because someone does a mistake or treats you bad, it doesn't mean that you have to cause them harm in return. There are cases in which you have to fight for yourself, or for your people, and yeah that is different from giving 'tit-for-tat which just because someone 'hurt your ego'. Again, fighting for a cause, for yourself, for the right thing is to keep up your self-respect. You get the difference? self-respect gives peace and strength, and will power, and positivity, while ego gives a negative vibe and only leaves self-destruction...

I hope all the lonely, silent, depressed, self-discouraged ones or those discouraged by others learn to stand up for themselves.

You have to help yourself. No matter how many people- friends, acquaintances, or family, promise to be with you forever, they can't stay forever, because they have their own lives to deal with too...and you shouldn't wait for someone to come and lift you up. Someone who should always be ready to take your side should be yourself...

Remember, you are the strongest person when you respect yourself, because you are the strength you need...you just need to stay away from ego...and learn to treat yourself well without mistreating others...

I truly hope this helps everyone realize how important it is to keep self-respect and let go of ego...Cuz friends.... we can't always live in fantasy; we have to face reality!
Choose which side you're on!

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