Hello there! Have you had a good night sleep? Or were you too busy in dreaming? Have you ever dreamt of something so strong that it became reality? I've heard that dream is not something that comes when you sleep but it is something that doesn't let you sleep till it becomes reality... So I'm sure each of us always have this one goal in mind that we always wanted to reach? What's yours? A dream is driven towards reality only as long as there is passion in your heart, once that passion is gone, it's like the bright light of a candle just blew off...and all there's left is darkness, without the needed light...isn't it?
Just like when you have a sugar cube in your hand, ants come to take it away from you, when you have such a good dream in your hands there will be people trying to stop you from it... But our job is to keep ourselves on the track and keep going towards it! Cuz, who doesn't know that every road has obstacles someway or the other. There may be thousands of reasons to go back, but you just need 1 reason to keep going forward to reach your dream!
I know this is a short post, but remember one thing, sky is not the limit for your dreams, and no matter how far it is you wish to go, you can do it if you have the will power to!
My world.... This blog reflects me!
Thursday, August 22, 2019
Dreams..
Tuesday, August 20, 2019
Expectations, judgements, and decisions
Yo! I'm back with a new topic to talk about with you guys! I know you've all heard one particular phrase many times before... "never expect" isn't it? And I know most of us think that when we are in a commitment, irrespective of the commitment being a relationship or a friendship or even a school submission, it is hard not to expect because we are giving something, but...how do you feel the true joy of giving if you are expecting something in return? When we don't expect anything and something great happens it will give us extra happiness but when you expect and you don't get it, you will only hold onto it or be depressed over it...and when your expectations are not met that's when judgements come into the picture, you start judging people based on your expectations...and based on your judgements you make your decisions... do you get the point here? Just because of your expectations you make judgements which may be wrong and thus you make wrong decisions. Now I will repeat one point, 'Think carefully before you do anything. Better make things right or nothing will be left... Hope you all will be able to make wise decisions, good for your future and harmless for others.' Remember, life is not a business where you give and take or expect. When you learn to live with no boundaries and to do anything and everything you want to do just for the sake of doing and not for the sake of something you get back for it, that's when you actually feel alive.
Thursday, June 20, 2019
Your words...
You know what? Every word we say, every reply we give leaves a great impact behind. Once it may lead to a break or the start of a new relationship, sometimes it changes the situation between two people...if you get what I'm trying to say.
There are many ways to say or convey a particular message to the other person..sometimes when we are angry or under mental pressure, we don't pay attention to what we say and the way we say something, which may really hurt the other. Of course, now you may think that while you are under your own pressure how can you care about the way you talk, then let me tell you, if you have nothing good to say then don't say it, and if you have to say something, say it right.
As I told you already one message can be said in many different ways. For example, "The room is barely empty" can also be said as "The room is almost full.". if this is about one side of communication, on the other side, the way people see something you say also may be different depending on the person's thinking, for example, the word mom on a piece of paper can be seen as wow if u see from the other direction. Besides writing, this type of interpretation may also be seen in speaking. So one must always be careful before saying something, you have to think before you say something, because once said, those words can never be taken back, and in fact, they leave a nasty mark on the bond you have with the other. Sometimes it may never be the same again because of what you have once said...The best thing I suggest is, when you are in a mood when you might just say something hurting just keep silent and leave, then think about how you can say what you want to say in the right way such that they can understand. I know procrastination is bad, but sometimes you need time to think about it, to do the right thing, becuz you know hasty decisions are also not helpful.
Just remember that words are strong and as sharp as needles, and just make sure that your words don't pierce anyone.
There are many ways to say or convey a particular message to the other person..sometimes when we are angry or under mental pressure, we don't pay attention to what we say and the way we say something, which may really hurt the other. Of course, now you may think that while you are under your own pressure how can you care about the way you talk, then let me tell you, if you have nothing good to say then don't say it, and if you have to say something, say it right.
As I told you already one message can be said in many different ways. For example, "The room is barely empty" can also be said as "The room is almost full.". if this is about one side of communication, on the other side, the way people see something you say also may be different depending on the person's thinking, for example, the word mom on a piece of paper can be seen as wow if u see from the other direction. Besides writing, this type of interpretation may also be seen in speaking. So one must always be careful before saying something, you have to think before you say something, because once said, those words can never be taken back, and in fact, they leave a nasty mark on the bond you have with the other. Sometimes it may never be the same again because of what you have once said...The best thing I suggest is, when you are in a mood when you might just say something hurting just keep silent and leave, then think about how you can say what you want to say in the right way such that they can understand. I know procrastination is bad, but sometimes you need time to think about it, to do the right thing, becuz you know hasty decisions are also not helpful.
Just remember that words are strong and as sharp as needles, and just make sure that your words don't pierce anyone.
Wednesday, April 17, 2019
Its Never Goodbye...
Lost are those days
when we played and had fun
Changed are our ways
no more sitting below the sun...
I guess its all history
but the memories that we made
maybe they were meant to be
a light below the shade...
Each of us one day
are meant to shine bright
in our own way
in the darkest night...
But here we are tonight
together hand in hand
wow! It's a beautiful sight
I wonder where we all will land...
Someday if we all meet again
I hope for that moment
to connect us all again
and let's enjoy the time to be spent...
I guess its time to part our ways
each with a different dream
entering a new phase
we remain in our hearts as a team!
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A poem of mine...
Dedicated to all my dear classmates...
Its the end of 12th class, and the end of another school journey...
but its never the end of a beautiful bond between the people met in the journey...
NOTE: WE NEVER KNOW WHEN A PERSON MAY LEAVE US OR LEAVE THE WORLD...SO ENJOY THE TIME WITH EACH AND EVERY PERSON WHO PUTS EFFORT AND THEIR TIME FOR YOU...EMBRACE THE MOMENTS NOW BEFORE ITS TOO LATE...BEFORE THEY ARE GONE...BEFORE THE CAN'T COME BACK FOREVER...
Sunday, March 31, 2019
Guilt
Yo guys! I'm back with something to talk about with all of you!
Guilt! yes its the topic of this post. So i'm sure every one of us have faced this feeling more than once. Because obviously all of us haven't gone across life for so long without doing mistakes right? While some people try to hide them, some of them and that is very few of them admit their mistakes.
Guilt is what you feel when you are hiding a mistake you've done, but...it might not always be because of a mistake you've done, it might be one which you blame yourself for whatever happened. That happens, I've been there, you've been there and we've all been there.
The problem is that sometimes...or maybe always...this guilt we have leads to bad consequences.
You know... have you heard that line?... "Every bully has a story"...In fact everyone has a story!
As I've told you in previous posts, People change..and one reason for a good student to turn into a bully is the guilt feeling, trapped in him or her, which is caused by their past and their experiences in different situations, for which they blame themselves.
Similarly even a loner in a class or an introvert has a story behind them.
The best way to change a bully or a bad guy or a loner is to to talk with them. Let them express themselves and free their guilt...because this guilt is a huge burden which makes us do more mistakes...
So hiding away is never a way...you have to face it. Hiding from a problem or hiding the problem or blaming yourself creates the guilt. acing it no matter how hard it is, lets you let out your guilt and free your mind, and lets you be yourself.
People should know that its OK to make mistakes, you just have to realize your mistake and try not to repeat it next time, and try to improve yourself, but that doesn't mean you have to blame yourself all the time and put yourself down, because that just doesn't let you do anything.
The help we can do for our ones carrying guilt is a little motivation, that even though they have been on the wrong path till now, its never too late to turn to the right path.
In our world, people who point out mistakes and put us down are way more than the ones who can try to motivate and encourage others to do the right thing, that is the reason more and more of us are turning bad and against us, that's one of the main reason terrorists, villains in our world and bullies in our schools and colleges are rising...
Now do you realize that this small thing called guilt can lead to such a huge impact in the world?
Well I hope all of you can face your guilt and try to correct your mistakes, and make a better life ahead...and that those who can shall motivate our loved ones and actually help whoever possible.
We can bring change in world in this way too...
Guilt! yes its the topic of this post. So i'm sure every one of us have faced this feeling more than once. Because obviously all of us haven't gone across life for so long without doing mistakes right? While some people try to hide them, some of them and that is very few of them admit their mistakes.
Guilt is what you feel when you are hiding a mistake you've done, but...it might not always be because of a mistake you've done, it might be one which you blame yourself for whatever happened. That happens, I've been there, you've been there and we've all been there.
The problem is that sometimes...or maybe always...this guilt we have leads to bad consequences.
You know... have you heard that line?... "Every bully has a story"...In fact everyone has a story!
As I've told you in previous posts, People change..and one reason for a good student to turn into a bully is the guilt feeling, trapped in him or her, which is caused by their past and their experiences in different situations, for which they blame themselves.
Similarly even a loner in a class or an introvert has a story behind them.
The best way to change a bully or a bad guy or a loner is to to talk with them. Let them express themselves and free their guilt...because this guilt is a huge burden which makes us do more mistakes...
So hiding away is never a way...you have to face it. Hiding from a problem or hiding the problem or blaming yourself creates the guilt. acing it no matter how hard it is, lets you let out your guilt and free your mind, and lets you be yourself.
People should know that its OK to make mistakes, you just have to realize your mistake and try not to repeat it next time, and try to improve yourself, but that doesn't mean you have to blame yourself all the time and put yourself down, because that just doesn't let you do anything.
The help we can do for our ones carrying guilt is a little motivation, that even though they have been on the wrong path till now, its never too late to turn to the right path.
In our world, people who point out mistakes and put us down are way more than the ones who can try to motivate and encourage others to do the right thing, that is the reason more and more of us are turning bad and against us, that's one of the main reason terrorists, villains in our world and bullies in our schools and colleges are rising...
Now do you realize that this small thing called guilt can lead to such a huge impact in the world?
Well I hope all of you can face your guilt and try to correct your mistakes, and make a better life ahead...and that those who can shall motivate our loved ones and actually help whoever possible.
We can bring change in world in this way too...
Friday, March 29, 2019
Ego vs Self Respect
People say we shouldn't lose our self-respect, but we should never keep ego...Have you guys ever mistaken ego for self-respect? Well, my dear friends you know it. They are not the same! Ego and Self-respect play similar roles but of two different worlds, or let's simply say different views.
Love yourself...you must've heard this many times I assume? That's self-respect. You have to respect yourself, but you can't expect everyone to put you first. Everything has a limit. The main point is, how you treat others shows them your level of ego, and how you treat yourself shows your level of self-respect! I always believe that just because someone does a mistake or treats you bad, it doesn't mean that you have to cause them harm in return. There are cases in which you have to fight for yourself, or for your people, and yeah that is different from giving 'tit-for-tat which just because someone 'hurt your ego'. Again, fighting for a cause, for yourself, for the right thing is to keep up your self-respect. You get the difference? self-respect gives peace and strength, and will power, and positivity, while ego gives a negative vibe and only leaves self-destruction...
I hope all the lonely, silent, depressed, self-discouraged ones or those discouraged by others learn to stand up for themselves.
You have to help yourself. No matter how many people- friends, acquaintances, or family, promise to be with you forever, they can't stay forever, because they have their own lives to deal with too...and you shouldn't wait for someone to come and lift you up. Someone who should always be ready to take your side should be yourself...
Remember, you are the strongest person when you respect yourself, because you are the strength you need...you just need to stay away from ego...and learn to treat yourself well without mistreating others...
I truly hope this helps everyone realize how important it is to keep self-respect and let go of ego...Cuz friends.... we can't always live in fantasy; we have to face reality!
Love yourself...you must've heard this many times I assume? That's self-respect. You have to respect yourself, but you can't expect everyone to put you first. Everything has a limit. The main point is, how you treat others shows them your level of ego, and how you treat yourself shows your level of self-respect! I always believe that just because someone does a mistake or treats you bad, it doesn't mean that you have to cause them harm in return. There are cases in which you have to fight for yourself, or for your people, and yeah that is different from giving 'tit-for-tat which just because someone 'hurt your ego'. Again, fighting for a cause, for yourself, for the right thing is to keep up your self-respect. You get the difference? self-respect gives peace and strength, and will power, and positivity, while ego gives a negative vibe and only leaves self-destruction...
I hope all the lonely, silent, depressed, self-discouraged ones or those discouraged by others learn to stand up for themselves.
You have to help yourself. No matter how many people- friends, acquaintances, or family, promise to be with you forever, they can't stay forever, because they have their own lives to deal with too...and you shouldn't wait for someone to come and lift you up. Someone who should always be ready to take your side should be yourself...
Remember, you are the strongest person when you respect yourself, because you are the strength you need...you just need to stay away from ego...and learn to treat yourself well without mistreating others...
I truly hope this helps everyone realize how important it is to keep self-respect and let go of ego...Cuz friends.... we can't always live in fantasy; we have to face reality!
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