May 16th
Dear diary,
Oh god it's been so long! I've missed writing to you! Today I come to you with a few of my latest observations of the world. I've noticed how in the end no one remembers all the good you've done, they just hold onto that one thing you did wrong. It happens with all of us. We all have been the victim sometime or the other , but we all have been the villains in someone's story somewhere out there as well.
Here are the ingredients I've discovered which make the world darker. No understanding, just blaming. No communicating, just assuming. No solutions, just grieving over mistakes. No bonding, only anger and misunderstanding. No faith, only doubt.
I've noticed something about myself. Whenever I see a movie and there comes a scene in which someone is making a great mistake, I realize that many people make that mistake and end up ruining their day or career or relationship or what not. Then I start imagining who all have made that mistake in my case, but what I fail to see is that I must've made that mistake too...I might have hurt someone in the same way. I'm pretty sure many of the people around me have gone through this situation but I think, many of them haven't realized how they themselves act as villain sometimes.
Basically the world is full of hypocrites, and I sure am a really big one. Like bro, you know what I do? I tell my people not to do something when I know that it will effect them badly and that I know it becuz I faced it, and yet I end up doing it myself and continuing this activity which I told them not to do. What I need to learn is, we as humans having our own lives need to stop expecting a person to behave as we want them to. A relationship, i.e., any relation, doesn't give us the right to rule over a person, their behavior and their lifestyle ! A relationship is supposed to be betterment and growth of two people with the help of each other's guidance and there is a huge difference between guidance and ruling. Guidance is to show direction when stuck, while ruling is to control, and according to my recent observation and findings😌, no one in the world has the right to 'control' anyone, all we can do is guide. A relation is supposed to make two people feel happy with themselves, not feel lost in the persona they are in.
The world would be a better place if we all stop expecting and blaming others for our mistakes. I wish the world could know and acknowledge and somehow implement it in their life... That's a lot about the world for today, I'll get back to ya next time luv!
