Expectations, judgements, and decisions

Yo! I'm back with a new topic to talk about with you guys! I know you've all heard one particular phrase many times before... "never expect" isn't it? And I know most of us think that when we are in a commitment, irrespective of the commitment being a relationship or a friendship or even a school submission, it is hard not to expect because we are giving something, but...how do you feel the true joy of giving if you are expecting something in return? When we don't expect anything and something great happens it will give us extra happiness but when you expect and you don't get it, you will only hold onto it or be depressed over it...and when your expectations are not met that's when judgements come into the picture, you start judging people based on your expectations...and based on your judgements you make your decisions... do you get the point here? Just because of your expectations you make judgements which may be wrong and thus you make wrong decisions. Now I will repeat one point, 'Think carefully before you do anything. Better make things right or nothing will be left... Hope you all will be able to make wise decisions, good for your future and harmless for others.'  Remember, life is not a business where you give and take or expect. When you learn to live with no boundaries and to do anything and everything you want to do just for the sake of doing and not for the sake of something you get back for it, that's when you actually feel alive.