You know what? Every word we say, every reply we give leaves a great impact behind. Once it may lead to a break or the start of a new relationship, sometimes it changes the situation between two people...if you get what I'm trying to say.
There are many ways to say or convey a particular message to the other person..sometimes when we are angry or under mental pressure, we don't pay attention to what we say and the way we say something, which may really hurt the other. Of course, now you may think that while you are under your own pressure how can you care about the way you talk, then let me tell you, if you have nothing good to say then don't say it, and if you have to say something, say it right.
As I told you already one message can be said in many different ways. For example, "The room is barely empty" can also be said as "The room is almost full.". if this is about one side of communication, on the other side, the way people see something you say also may be different depending on the person's thinking, for example, the word mom on a piece of paper can be seen as wow if u see from the other direction. Besides writing, this type of interpretation may also be seen in speaking. So one must always be careful before saying something, you have to think before you say something, because once said, those words can never be taken back, and in fact, they leave a nasty mark on the bond you have with the other. Sometimes it may never be the same again because of what you have once said...The best thing I suggest is, when you are in a mood when you might just say something hurting just keep silent and leave, then think about how you can say what you want to say in the right way such that they can understand. I know procrastination is bad, but sometimes you need time to think about it, to do the right thing, becuz you know hasty decisions are also not helpful.
Just remember that words are strong and as sharp as needles, and just make sure that your words don't pierce anyone.
There are many ways to say or convey a particular message to the other person..sometimes when we are angry or under mental pressure, we don't pay attention to what we say and the way we say something, which may really hurt the other. Of course, now you may think that while you are under your own pressure how can you care about the way you talk, then let me tell you, if you have nothing good to say then don't say it, and if you have to say something, say it right.
As I told you already one message can be said in many different ways. For example, "The room is barely empty" can also be said as "The room is almost full.". if this is about one side of communication, on the other side, the way people see something you say also may be different depending on the person's thinking, for example, the word mom on a piece of paper can be seen as wow if u see from the other direction. Besides writing, this type of interpretation may also be seen in speaking. So one must always be careful before saying something, you have to think before you say something, because once said, those words can never be taken back, and in fact, they leave a nasty mark on the bond you have with the other. Sometimes it may never be the same again because of what you have once said...The best thing I suggest is, when you are in a mood when you might just say something hurting just keep silent and leave, then think about how you can say what you want to say in the right way such that they can understand. I know procrastination is bad, but sometimes you need time to think about it, to do the right thing, becuz you know hasty decisions are also not helpful.
Just remember that words are strong and as sharp as needles, and just make sure that your words don't pierce anyone.
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